
Backstory: The Creation of Live Yourself Better
In 2017, the sudden loss of a young relative forced me to confront my own mortality. Grieving and seeking purpose, I tried to take control of my health. I forced myself into long-distance running and obstacle mud runs, hoping to outrun my grief. While it built resilience, it never truly clicked; running was a vehicle to escape pain rather than something I enjoyed.
When lockdowns hit, coupled with the birth of my fifth child, an underlying back condition, unemployment and and a sudden heart-related health scare, I knew something had to shift. I needed a way of living that was sustainable, compassionate, and resilient to life's upheavals. Surrounding these physical challenges was emotional trauma, which led me to work with a therapist and adopt healthier coping mechanisms.
During this period of profound transition, I moved back to Birmingham and seized the opportunity to redirect my path. I completed my MA in Creative Writing and simultaneously retrained as a health coach and advanced personal trainer. Writing became a crucial lens through which I processed the human experience, while my health studies revealed a glaring gap: how rarely standard wellness approaches account for women’s specific physiology, trauma, or real-world stress.
Rather than pursuing restrictive quick fixes or obsessive routines, I focused on small, nourishing habits - improving sleep, upgrading family nutrition, and embracing joyful movement like kitchen dancing, wild swimming, and walking. By removing the pressure of rigid exercise regimes, true wellbeing took root.
Today, my work sits at the intersection of creative expression and sustainable wellbeing. As a qualified specialist in women’s health, GP exercise referral, and trauma-informed care, I design individualised, compassionate strategies for long-term health. I also collaborate on creative public health initiatives, using storytelling, writing, and community engagement to make health accessible, inclusive, and deeply human.
Live Yourself Better was created to help you move better, feel better, and live better - on your own terms.
Hello, I'm Tonia. I would love to work with you to help you to reach your lifestyle, health, wellbeing and fitness goals. I live in Sutton Coldfield, and I am happy to travel. I am 45 years old and a mum of many children, and I understand life's challenges - so whether you are busy with work, or family, or both, and find it difficult to find time to take care of yourself, I do understand and I am here to help.
I'm a CIMSPA-certified personal trainer with a Level 3 Diploma in Gym Instructing and Personal Training (Practitioner).
My qualification includes CIMSPA-certified Nutrition to Support Physical Activity, Applied Anatomy and Physiology and Bespoke Exercise Programme Design, Customised Exercise Programme Instruction and Communication Techniques.
I have undertaken additional CIMSPA-accredited CPD in training perimenopausal and menopausal women, pregnant and postnatal women.
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I am also a certified mindfulness coach, and I being this into my practice, to create a holistic approach to lifestyle fitness and to help you reach your goals.
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My background is in global medical nutrition and education. Fun fact, I also have an MA in Creative Writing, just because I love it!
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I am a CIMSPA member (C005483) have Enhanced DBS clearance for working with young people and I am insured by Insure4Sport (Policy Number I4S675188).
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To work with me, either follow the steps below, or email me trainertonia@gmail.com and we can arrange a time to chat.
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